What to expect when you lose your virginity (For men and women)

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After their first sexual encounter, most men and women worry if there will be any outward traces of virginity in the future. 

When a woman loses her virginity, she experiences both physical and psychological changes. These are expected indicators.


When a woman loses her virginity, she experiences both physical and psychological changes. These are expected indicators.

 

Virginity is a significant issue for many individuals. There is always some ceremony preceding the first sexual encounter. Nonetheless, in this age of tolerance and awareness, some individuals do not believe in the concept. 


Or rather, reject the concept for marginalizing non-heterosexual sexual activity and for imposing undue pressure on individuals to engage in sexual activity. 

 

Aside from the emotional side of things, pregnancy may be one of the most obvious bodily changes for women who have lost their virginity. As a heterosexual woman, you should make sure you have birth control before your first sexual encounter.

 

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Physical indicators of lost virginity in females

 

There are a few bodily changes that women may experience following their first sexual encounter. Below are the respective indicators.

Your breasts become temporarily firmer

When you are sexually aroused, your nervous system also becomes aroused. The outcome is that your blood vessels will dilate, causing your breasts to expand. Please understand that the current sternness is transitory. This does not imply that you will have permanently fuller breasts.

 

Generally, your nipples become more sensitive.

This is technically known as vasocongestion. Your body responds to sexual activity by boosting blood flow, tension, and sensitivity in your nipples and areola. Sexual arousal causes the erection and h ardening of the nipples, which might facilitate orgasm.

 

But here's what makes this one unique. This is not truly transient. Your nipples are normally more sensitive than they were before you began having sex, even when you're not having sex or even when you're not thrilled.

Changes in your vagina

Since there is fresh activity in your vagina, its suppleness will adapt. However, it may take some time before it becomes accustomed to penetration. In the beginning, inadequate lubrication may cause discomfort. Foreplay might facilitate vaginal lubrication. However, if the pain persists, you should likely seek medical attention.

 

The brain produces feel-good chemicals.  

Your brain can produce feel-good chemicals and hormones such as endorphins, serotonin, oxytocin, and dopamine. 


These chemicals can cause a surge of positive emotions, thus creating a strong sense of attachment and trust for the person with whom you just had sex. It is little wonder that oxytocin is referred to as the affection hormone.

Your clitoris and uterus will behave appropriately

As time passes following your first sexual 

encounter, your uterus and clitoris will change, contracting and enlarging proportionally. Whenever you feel sexually aroused, your clitoris becomes erect and swells, and your uterus also rises. Additionally, they revert to normal as your mood changes.

Men's physical indicators of lost virginity

Men exhibit greater emotional than physical symptoms. In a culture that keeps telling men they need to be sexual gods to be good in bed, the pressure after your first sex can be very hard to handle.

 

You walk home wondering whether you performed well enough to avoid the Nigerian pejorative moniker "One-minute guy."

 

Consequently, this pressure results in a persistent desire to surpass yourself anytime you are in bed. Instead of discussing and being open with your spouse about your sexual life, you do everything possible to hide your inexperience. In this manner, your partner will drop their expectations and attempt to align with you.

Your virginity may be a gift

There are other claims that are nothing more than the stuff of mythology. Consider the hymen. The hymen is not a flat tissue that must be penetrated during the initial sexual encounter. If this were true, one would have to question why virgin women menstruate. The hymen is a tissue that surrounds the opening of the uterus.

 

Regarding vaginal apertures, realize that your virginity is not a gift you should give to anyone. Your virginity is all yours. If you're going to preserve it, do it for reasons that are satisfactory to you. You alone determine with whom you will have your first sexual encounter.

 

During and after your first sexual encounter, nothing is certain. Therefore, after the first sexual encounter, your partner may exhibit strange and erratic behavior. 


He/she could panic and then act out. They may even request a breakup if they believe they have taken something significant from you and they begin to feel obligated to marry you. Allow them time for the situation to pass.


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